Steps and Leaps

How often do you step out of your comfort zone?

We ask our singers to do it all the time. New singers are worried their voice isn't good enough to fit in. Most singers are nervous before they perform. We encourage quiet kids to raise their hands to answer questions. Some of our singers' voices change and drop far faster than anticipated!

Mistakes are scary, change is uncomfortable, and stage fright is common.

My first reaction is to assuage that fear. I tell them that chorus is the perfect place for shy singers to find their way because they're not alone. I remind them that even Beyonce and Taylor Swift get nervous to perform; it's only human. They tend to be...skeptical of my counsel.

Of course, I get to watch our kids reach the other side of that fear. I see them learn to sing out, form friendships and find their way. That sense of pride and accomplishment from a performance well done is invaluable. It sticks with them long after they've sung their last note with BYC.

Case in point: MasterSingers pushed past their inhibitions in their first rehearsal, and they sounded fantastic on the first piece they learned.

If the zone beyond our comfort is where the magic lies, we should go there more often.

As their teachers, we take risks alongside them. Each rehearsal, we try new activities, games and techniques to help them grow. This year, we are hosting visits from guest artists and other choirs, taking the MasterSingers on a trip to Philly, and planning even more performance opportunities than before. Our singers will perform for meandering museum goers, fundraiser attendees, peers, hockey game-goers.... they'll see it all.

I must admit—these new plans push me beyond my comfort zone too sometimes. I worry whether I've properly prepared our singers for success. But just like our singers, I can grow by leaning into that discomfort. It's worth it on the other side.

Each leap of faith is a step toward true growth, as musicians, artists and community members. I'm proud of our singers for their courage, resilience, and most of all, their unrelenting kindness toward each other. It's much easier to be uncomfortable when you find solace in each other.

Planting the Seeds

August 11, 2023

"What can YOU do to help our singers grow?"

I asked our MasterSinger Interns this question a few weeks ago. Every year, a select few of our oldest singers volunteer at our Summer Sing camp. I train them during the week before camp to prepare them as leaders and facilitators.

It's one of my favorite days of the year: we invite these singers to think like teachers, to understand how to create a good learning environment, and to contemplate how they can direct singers' energy in a positive, productive direction. Our board vice chair, Jeanette Fotis, even taught them how to facilitate improvisational group games, so that they could lead those activities at camp.

I prompted them further:

How did you feel when you first joined BYC?

Why have you stayed all these years?

How do you want our campers to feel at camp?

What can YOU do to help them grow?"

Dear reader, what do you think they said?

As you might imagine, these dedicated, talented, musical BYC-ers didn't mention the music at all. They didn't focus on the importance of rhythmic precision or stage etiquette. While they have expressed their fervent devotion to those principles in the past, their answers revealed other priorities.

They wanted our campers to feel safe. They wanted them to have fun, to feel comfortable to meet new faces, and to feel seen and heard. They wanted to comfort campers who felt lonely and kindly encourage focus from singers who were distracted.

They wanted them to love singing together—and to know that they mattered.

These answers are simple. But they exemplify the importance of this community. Singing is the perfect vehicle to welcome the outsider, provide a sense of belonging, and create memories that last.

Our MasterSingers embody what BYC means. They get to reap the harvest of what we sow. And now, they get to set the tone for our younger singers' growth.

At Summer Sing, those MasterSingers jumped right in. They did all they could to make our camp an inviting, safe, welcoming space. Each of them welcomed new singers with a smile, reached out to shy campers, prepared materials and spaces for the next activity, and facilitated activities with kindness and grace.

We always end our camp with one of my favorite traditions: the Gratitude Web. Each camper in the circle takes turns expressing gratitude to another singer, passing a ball of yarn with each compliment. The yarn eventually unwinds into a web, a chain of kindness—and the campers tie a piece of the yarn to their wrists, to take that kindness with them after camp.

The words of gratitude were especially earnest this year. These young campers expressed sincere thanks to each other—for how they were greeted, for the fun they had together, and for the sense of belonging that they gave each other.

I have no doubt that our MasterSinger Interns, alongside our talented and dedicated staff and volunteers, created the space for those warm feelings.

As our 32nd year kicks off, we are offering more opportunities for our singers. This year features new performance opportunities, a trip to Philadelphia, visits from award-winning guest artists, and more. No two years are the same, as we continuously try to offer more for our singers.

With all of these developments, BYC can rest assured that our core values remain strong as ever. If we have these thoughtful singers and our greater community that supports them, we have everything we need.

Laughter, Goosebumps and Leadership

May 3, 2023

As a choral director, I enter every rehearsal with so many goals.

Of course we need to manage our time well, rehearsing each piece of our repertoire, learning notes, and building vocal technique and ensemble skills as we go.

But I also want our kids to leave our doors feeling a certain way.

Did they feel successful? Were we an escape from something that they were worried about? Did we make their week better?

Did they feel included, like they belong? Did they make a friend? Did they laugh? Did they discover something new?

Naturally, every singer has their own experience. But what I always notice is how these singers make me feel.

This week, during our final rehearsals, each ensemble gave me a different feeling as I left our doors.

Our Choristers made me laugh: we challenged them to practice standing still on the risers, and those 8- and 9-year-olds tried their very best. The effort it took to keep their arms at their sides was truly Herculean, and that struggle was written all over their faces.

The Chorale was stunning. Their three-part harmonies locked in, and the range of their dynamics gave us goosebumps. I have seen many adult choirs struggle to achieve their level of expressiveness, and there are 10-year-olds in this group!

Our MasterSingers made me so proud. They always do. They tackle such challenging music, think so deeply, and aim for perfection (which, you guessed it, isn't real in the world of music). These are traits all of us want in our leaders—my main job is to remind them to appreciate the journey, as lofty as their goals are.

Laughter, goosebumps, and leadership. All in a day's work for BYC. I'm just lucky enough to witness it.

Sam Barge